This one is kind of a no-brainer because if you’re just a regular dude and a really attractive woman wants to date you, OF COURSE you’re gonna give her a lot attention, right??Plus, if she’s smart, fun to be around, and she adds something positive to your life, she might get your attention (and women understand this).
Are some women trying to leverage their good looks to land a rich guy and to be “set up” for life? Are some women only looking to date guys who look like Calvin Klein models? Are some women simply interested in being with a guy because she feels really attracted to him – even if he’s not rich or classically handsome? One reason for this is that a lot of attractive women perceive men of average looks or income to be more supportive partners – which a lot of times they are.
What’s interesting is that you could be a totally irresponsible jerk, but just because you are not rich or and you are not a “pretty-boy,” she might assume these things about you: if the woman has had negative experiences with guys who had looks or money.
It’s kind of like that guy who dates women simply because they’re beautiful – even though he has nothing in common with them.
A few years after college, I met a guy named Chris who always had very attractive female “friends” (as he called them).
Of course, the way some of these girls hung on him, I could always tell there was something more going on.
Chris never seemed shy or nervous around any woman even though he was only average-looking and almost always broke.
I could never understand this because beautiful women only date guys who are very good-looking or rich, right?
Then, he ends up falling in love with a Plain Jane because she has more than just good looks to offer and she’s totally different from all the others.
Over the years, I’ve had the luxury of hearing different female friends (and their female friends) talk about their dating lives at length.
One thing a lot of them complain about is the type of guy who is more into himself or his smartphone than .
Now, if you are a regular guy and you ask out a woman who looks like Scarlett Johannson, chances are you are going to give her a LOT of attention (probably too much, right? This leads to the following thought in the minds of a lot of women: Average guys give more attention in a relationship.