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I work out 6 days a week and I eat healthy food, but I’m in no way a diet freak and I like to splurge on the weekend.I’m not athletic by any means (as in I don’t, nor should I, play sports) and toned is another one of those relative terms.

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Last week we brought you the story of Max, a man who stood up his date when he discovered she lied about her body type. Now “athletic and toned” is another tricky description given my surroundings, particularly when I’m a member of Gold’s Gym (beef cake central).

Anyone who has been to a Scottsdale club on a Saturday night, or a Monday for that matter, will know what I mean.

I would say I’m pretty slender, but given my Scottsdale, Arizona club scene surroundings, I don’t think my version of slender applies.

But I’ve also gotten many notes complaining about the general practice of fitness deceit. Now, when asked to define my body type as either “Slender,” “Athletic and Toned,” or “Average” I’m at a loss.

That is until so-called “average” men start contacting me.

To put it as nicely as possible, it has been brought to my attention that men have an entirely different understanding of the word “average.” As I said, emails like this one from Kelly have been common over the last week, and I agree with the general thrust of her argument: people lie like rugs.

She was focused on guys, because those are the profiles she sees, but of course women do the same thing.

So let’s try to get to the bottom of this: what do these body type categories on sites like mean?

Below are the available fitness options, and their real life translation.

740 Comments

  1. I work out 6 days a week and I eat healthy food, but I’m in no way a diet freak and I like to splurge on the weekend.

  2. I’m not athletic by any means (as in I don’t, nor should I, play sports) and toned is another one of those relative terms.

  3. I’ve got good legs and I’ve been told I have a “great ass”, but I wouldn’t say the rest of my body qualifies as toned.

  4. Needless to say, I select average and move on to the next question……So, a few days pass by and I’m confident in my body choice selection.

  5. Last week we brought you the story of Max, a man who stood up his date when he discovered she lied about her body type. Now “athletic and toned” is another tricky description given my surroundings, particularly when I’m a member of Gold’s Gym (beef cake central).

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